I'm truly sorry things didn't turn out liked you'd hoped. I have asked other people 'would you like/ use this' inherited stuff rather than wait till I'm gone. I would much rather see things used than sitting pretty in a cupboard. I'll just keep a few small things. It's not from lack of space necessarily, I just can't abide items not being used and loved, just rotting away really.It's interesting, when one thinks about people and their stuff and the complicated relationships. Some like to keep things "that might come in handy some day", some like to toss "who needs that old stuff". And there's so many variations in between.
I've been forced into the purging and sorting, first when my Beloved unexpectedly passed away, leaving me with tons of his things, half of which hadn't even been unpacked when he moved in with me, since we had been planning to move closer to where he could find a better job. Then I decided I couldn't stay in that big old farmhouse, not only too empty without him, but also too expensive to maintain in retirement. So I sold up and moved, which meant another huge packing/sorting/purging time. All of last year disappeared into the whole moving drama.
But I still have SO MUCH STUFF! Inherited from my grandparents, my great aunts and uncles, my dad, and my Husband. Things from my childhood that I can't bear to throw out, like the little wooden rocking chair that my Daughter also used when she was little. Neither of my brothers care much about family history, so I have all the pictures and neat things like a green glass cookie jar that was my great-great uncle's. How to decide what to keep and what to get rid of? I need to somehow whittle it all down so that I don't feel like a prisoner to STUFF. Uff da.
A couple of things I've learned - never use cardboard for any long term storage. We had stored most of my Husband's man cave stuff in a clean, well built storage unit but the cardboard just seems to break down and attract bugs and just didn't hold up when I went back to empty the unit. Old file cabinets bolted to those moving dollys from harbor freight make great shop organizers, they hold a ton of stuff and are built of thicker steel, and the wheels make it easy to move them around as needed. And I ended up tossing a huge amount of spices (Husband was an awesome, accomplished cook!) because the plastic containers got nasty. So now I keep all foodstuff in glass or metal containers.
I hate packaging in my larder; must be an age thing - I get a great deal of satisfaction fitting a whole pack of - herbs,porridge, whatever- into a container.