Anyone ever thought of what you'd do if or when one or both got down and couldn't keep up with the work? I think about it more often now than before. Could stay with kids but don't really want to but also don't want to be put into a assisted living or home either. Any plans in case your no longer able to stay alone? I'm a firm believer in planning for such an event where hubby says he will deal with it when it comes. Well he may not be the one doing the dealing if he gets down first. Our kids are still dealing with their kids and grandkids so not sure they need us too or I'd want to be in their control.