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I am shocked by this! Shocked that 10% of heteros would even consider dating a trans. Sounds like a group of Democrats who answered yes for fear of being labeled intolerant.


https://misanthrope.today/2020/01/06/transgendered-loneliness-blamed-on-heterosexuals/

Author: Stewart L - January 6, 2020

Transgendered Loneliness Blamed on Heterosexuals?


Liberals want to take our guns away, kill our unborn children and infringe on our free speech rights. Now they insist that we date a trans people, too.

A survey conducted by Karen Blair and Rhea Hoskin at St. Xavier University in Canada asked 985 heterosexual men whether they would seek out a transgendered person as a romantic partner. To their surprise, nearly 90% of the respondents said no.


Most people would consider that a simple statement of personal preference. Heterosexual men wanting to date heterosexual women? Hey, it’s as old as the birds and the bees.

But not these survey organizers. They say it’s a sign of pervasive “heteronormativity,” a fancy word for bias against the transgendered.

In other words, if you really want to treat trans people as equals, you should be fully prepared to wine and dine and have sex with them, too. Caprice?

There’s a real irony here. For years, lesbians and gay men have been arguing that mainstream America wants everyone to conform to “traditional” sex and gender standards. Let us be who we want to be.

But now, unless heteros agree to take a walk on the wild side, they’re somehow branded as bigots.

The new study is even more shameless — indeed, disgusting — for suggesting that a lack of loving acceptance by heterosexuals is responsible for the deteriorating mental and emotional health of the transgendered.

Because heterosexuals aren’t interested in dating them, the pool of available mates is too small. As a result, they are suffering from anxiety, depression and even suicide, the researchers say. Waaaa, it’s all the “normies” fault!

Playing victim in this crass fashion is bad enough when it comes from the mouth of an ethnic minority or a woman, but when it’s a horny trans people desperate to get laid, it sounds even worse.

Why can’t trans people date other trans people or date lesbian or gay males? Must heterosexual men be forced to serve trans people as a bizarre form of “reparations”?

For a newly empowered sexual minority, it seems strange that its salvation depends on the goodwill of its oppressor.

Why won’t anyone out there date them?

Maybe it’s because we sense that you’re profoundly confused about your identity. Maybe it’s because we don’t like all the “attitude” that comes with being transgendered. Maybe it’s because so many of you use drugs or require some form of medication to get by.

Or maybe it comes down to this: We’re just not that it you.

Some men are, in fact. In Thailand, “ladyboys” dress up as near-perfect replicas of sexy heterosexual women to try to ensnare — and bed down — a heterosexual man. Many men don’t realize what they’re getting into — but some, in fact, do. In either case, the assignation often ends horribly, anecdotal accounts suggest.

Some heterosexual men may pursue the relationships for easy sex, but they’re not looking for a sustained relationship.

In the end, maybe their sympathizes that need to adjust. No matter how much our society tries to obliterate traditional gender boundaries, heterosexuals are here to stay. Of course, sexual minorities deserve our tolerance — and our respect.

That doesn’t mean they have a right to our hearts — or our privates.
 
Is traditional kissing between a man and a woman on TV too risque?

It's clearly an insult to the 3% of the population who may be watching that show and think it's gross. Makes way more sense to force the other 97% of us to adapt to their preferences.
 
Another "shake my head" moment.

Not to transgress, but does anyone besides me seem to only see gays and lesbians kissing on TV anymore? Is traditional kissing between a man and a woman on TV too risque?

I've noticed the same thing.
 
I'm paraquoting here ' though your sins be as scarlet, I'll forgive thee as far as the noth is from the south,the east from the west if you ask in serious prayer', To me this means to basically STOP THE SIN, stay in prayer, pray without ceasing,keep God in your thoughts . I fail at this way too much. God forgives those he chooses to, and vengence is His and He will avenge sayth the Lord.
We are flesh and weak although the spirit is willing.I just pray and ask for forgiveness maybe not enough.
 
Well OMG. If there's so many transgenders and ABC'ers all over the place, there would be no need to do this.
In Junior High, last year for the twins, there was Heroes Club during lunchtime. Grandkids were pressured to join and support LGBTxyz students. I don't believe being a LGBT makes you a hero.
 
Sorry, but I have no patience with this. First, I don't give a flying, Philadelphia, you-know-what if Transgendered people are lonely. Guess what? There are millions of other people out there from every sexual persuasion known to Man that are lonely. Put on your big boy pants, and find some friends. You probably want to start with people who are like minded. Blaming heterosexuals, who probably don't believe in your life style to begin with, is a pathetic excuse.

Second, we have discussed on this forum previously, I for one am sick of having this rubbed in my face. I am as tolerant as the next guy, but I don't want to see this on television, or anywhere else, 24/7.

Third, what idiot or group of idiots funds a worthless study like this. Remind me never to donate to St. Xavier University in Canada. If this is how they waste their money they will never get any of mine.
 
Wait, ... we're supposed to think the mentally deficient who have mutilated their genitals are sexy now? I'll let them be, to live their own life, but totally exclude me from that disgusting mess please.

I see this tranny stuff as mental illness. And the medical profession is trying to treat that mental illness in totally inappropriate ways. Like in the old days, they used to treat depression (?) with lobotomies and electroshock. Now we think that was barbaric and have found much better treatments. Today, we are at the lobotomy-equivalent stage with trannys. Cutting of their genitals and calling them "normal" as appeasement rather than trying to treat the root cause - mental illness. Some day, addadictomies and lopitoffamies will be looked at with the same horror that we look at lobotomies today. They will have found a way to treat the mental illness with a simply daily oral medication.
 
I agree. It is a mental illness, and should be dealt with accordingly. The suicide rate for transgendered people, even after having sex change surgery, is staggeringly high. Something is wrong, and nobody can figure out what it is. More work should be done getting to the root cause rather than condoning it, and forcing everyone to accept it.
 
Well OMG. If there's so many transgenders and ABC'ers all over the place, there would be no need to do this.
In Junior High, last year for the twins, there was Heroes Club during lunchtime. Grandkids were pressured to join and support LGBTxyz students. I don't believe being a LGBT makes you a hero.


Well some say its too late to change but it is not a goo excuse to keep being in that lifesyle.
And some of the church don't help telling them it is natural. I don't think any should be in church unles it is to change and no longer practicing. IMO they can read the Bible or not and I'm not their keeper or avenger. But also don't want to be around it.
But I don't go to church so really don't care who they invite in.
 
Well some may take this the wrong way. But I am not tolerant of that crap, any form of it. I said years ago all the gay crap getting pushed to the front back when Clinton was in office was just the start of the push to normalize all kinds of weird sh!!. Now days any deviant behaviour is put up as normal and they way things were meant to be. NO IT'S NOT! I don't care if you want to live your life that way, you are the one who will answer for it ultimatly. But NEVER expect me to accept or condone it. Don't flaunt it in my face, don't be pushing it on kids. It's wrong and will never be right.

One thing that knaws at me, what in the world could have been going on at Sodom and Gomohrra thats worse than what we are seeing today that pushed God to totally wipe them from the face of the earth? It's almost unbeilvable that much could be worse, But I know it had to be.
 
Maybe it is a mental illness, or maybe it started somewhere else in the body. We don't see articles on the hormone levels as a person grows and changes, we also don't see articles on what can be done to stem the tide.
More money for research and more money for the medical personnel, why would they bother to keep things normal if they could make money changing society's core values to accept anything?
As incredible as it sounds...the adversary is speeding up the wickedness.
 
Lonliness is a state of mind. I know people who are by themselves a lot, but are not lonely. I also know people who seem constantly surrounded by people, yet feel lonely. That "feeling" of lonliness is up to the individual to remedy. See a shrink if you have to, but don't blame your lonliness on anyone else.......especially those you don't seem to like b/c they somehow supress you by being heterosexual.:rolleyes:

I think these folks have, quite literally, forgotten where they came from.:confused:
 
This really is a topic that is enormously complex. Doctors make careers studying why people are oriented the way they are. Is Sexuality Learned or is it Genetic? I have known people I would consider on both sides of this issue; one was learned, and an open, conscious choice. One was genetic, who had a predilection and in his mind no choice.

IMHO it will take years of Psychological study to get anywhere close to an answer.
 
Maybe it is a mental illness, or maybe it started somewhere else in the body. We don't see articles on the hormone levels as a person grows and changes, we also don't see articles on what can be done to stem the tide.
More money for research and more money for the medical personnel, why would they bother to keep things normal if they could make money changing society's core values to accept anything?
As incredible as it sounds...the adversary is speeding up the wickedness.


We don't go to classrooms and poke out the eyes of children who have sight to make them more accepting of the blind.
Its not tolerence they are after, it is dominance. Brainwashing the youth is just wrong.
I have one in the family who doesn't push it and is a great person but it causes a division . We are not as close and the anger shows more every year. Claims to be a Chirstian.

I'd liek to send them that video of " Zo Loft" about God and homosexuality, but that would only make her more angry so why bother.
 
Makes more sense and factual than most reasons why it is Biblicly wrong and not born that way.
I forgot who put it up but a good one far as Bible study on subject gose.

 
Maybe it is a mental illness, or maybe it started somewhere else in the body. We don't see articles on the hormone levels as a person grows and changes, we also don't see articles on what can be done to stem the tide.
More money for research and more money for the medical personnel, why would they bother to keep things normal if they could make money changing society's core values to accept anything?
As incredible as it sounds...the adversary is speeding up the wickedness.
I have a longtime friend who is gay. Highly intelligent guy, has done some digging in medical journals. There is at least some data out there, about chemical differences that can be found in the womb of the to-be mother. Strangely enough - to me anyway - there is evidence that some of those mothers-to-be of gay males have unusually high amounts of testosterone in their womb.

My friend's mother gave birth to four children eventually.

The eldest, a daughter, is 'middling'. She was married, had two daughters, and when they were grown divorced her husband and later began a lifelong lesbian relationship.

The second child, also a daughter, is heterosexual, been married for decades, has a son.

The third child, my friend, is gay, and says he gained that knowledge during puberty. He was somewhere around 40 when he 'came out'. Has had a longterm relationship with another gay man.

The fourth child, a son, is heterosexual, has been married, has a son, politics are right of center.

All of these people are functional members of civilization, and the sons are not socialists (I haven't met either of the daughters).

So, I can only suggest that you don't believe everything you read. Hell, don't believe everything you read about anything, is my mantra.
 
All of these people are functional members of civilization, and the sons are not socialists (I haven't met either of the daughters).

So, I can only suggest that you don't believe everything you read. Hell, don't believe everything you read about anything, is my mantra.
I believe it is woven in the spin of the roulette-wheel that determines our genetic makeup.
I have a niece that was obviously going to be lesbian even before she what that was.
Classic 'tree-trunk' body shape and as masculine as her male peers. Shot an alligator when she was 8 with a 30-30 lever-action.:eek:
After she grew up, it was no surprise to anyone when she didn't start dating boys:rolleyes:.
When she is hanging out with her girl-friend, nobody thinks anything about it or says anything.
It's completely expected. Obvious.
I can't hate her anymore than tall people for being tall, short people for being short, red-headed people for being freckled gingers, (even though they are the spawn of Satan:rolleyes:, just kidding:D).

On topic: This thread is about TG, not L or G people. DNA and genetics are one thing. You get what you are dealt.
Being surgically modified to be something you are not, is completely different. If you get 'chopped & swapped' don't complain if everybody now thinks you're a freak and wants nothing to do with you:mad:.
 
I have known both gays and lesbians, their choice is fine with me...
I don't think it's really a 'choice' for them.
I've seen plenty of 'girly-men' that one look and you knew they had no 'choice' but to be gay.
And woMEN that had waaay more muscle-mass than me. They didn't have a 'choice' either.
No groom is going to be able to carry THAT over the threshold:eek:.
BTW, is your avatar putting on lipstick?:D
 
BTW, is your avatar putting on lipstick?:D
:p "Well, if you must pry" Smoking a pipe, call me old fashioned. :D

The gays guys I wouldn't have known except they told everybody. One of girls was a "fireplug" and obvious, the other you wouldn't know from mannerisms or appearance.
 
I believe it is woven in the spin of the roulette-wheel that determines our genetic makeup.

Actually the 'gay gene' has been essentially ruled out by most modern studies. Others indicate that there may be some biological factors, but only in a minimum number of cases. The vast majority of the time it is an environmental construct. So essentially social conditioning.

I will let you do your own research as it is easy to tell the science from the "I want this to be true" websites. But here is one recent article:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/science...shows-environment-major-factor-homosexuality/
 
Just giving you a hard time:).
Unlike others, we all know who/what we are.
No worries, was watching Blazing Saddles and it was all I could come up with :)

They really are just not wired to the regular schematic. Genetic? Evnironment? Way above my pay grade. Really don't care as long as they don't expect me to accomodate, or force it on others.
 
I have known both gays and lesbians, their choice is fine with me. I can't figure out TG, so I really can't contribute a darn thing.
Sorry Supe about going on about G-L. Felt like it needed saying. My friend has attempted to explain TG to me (he reads about this stuff)., but it gets complicated real quick. Too complicated. It does seem like more boy-kids think they are really girl-kids then the other way around. All of that can't be so they can compete against the girls in sports . . . can it?

Maybe that Y chromosome us guys are stuck with really is an X that got messed up sometime back there 400 million years or so. Gotta say I've always been happy to be a guy, but that's probably because I don't know better.
 
I believe it is woven in the spin of the roulette-wheel that determines our genetic makeup.
I have a niece that was obviously going to be lesbian even before she what that was.
Classic 'tree-trunk' body shape and as masculine as her male peers. Shot an alligator when she was 8 with a 30-30 lever-action.:eek:
After she grew up, it was no surprise to anyone when she didn't start dating boys:rolleyes:.
When she is hanging out with her girl-friend, nobody thinks anything about it or says anything.
It's completely expected. Obvious.
I can't hate her anymore than tall people for being tall, short people for being short, red-headed people for being freckled gingers, (even though they are the spawn of Satan:rolleyes:, just kidding:D).

On topic: This thread is about TG, not L or G people. DNA and genetics are one thing. You get what you are dealt.
Being surgically modified to be something you are not, is completely different. If you get 'chopped & swapped' don't complain if everybody now thinks you're a freak and wants nothing to do with you:mad:.

SuperV nobody is calling them the spawn of satan just saying they can't be what these churchs are telling them they are. Why go to church if your going to keep committing one of the most hated sins. I'm not religious but do believe in God and never had a problem with what people did privately.
I do have a problem with agndas and the things they do and push on children. And their aganda to destroy anything and anybody who doesn't like it.
All of them don't do this but they also don't condemn these horrible things either.
I have one in my family I love very much,but she wants me to accept her idea of morality yet she doesn't accept mine.
 

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