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An interesting question. "How dark are you willing to go in your preparedness efforts?"


https://www.theorganicprepper.com/preppers-reality-long-term-survival/

It Could Never Happen Here: Many People Won’t Consider the Grim Reality of Long-term Survival
September 19, 2019

by Daisy Luther

How dark are you willing to go in your preparedness efforts?

If you’re like a lot of people, there’s only a certain level of SHTF that you are willing to imagine. And that means you aren’t going to be prepared for it if things get worse than the level you can envision.

If you’re reading this, you’re probably a prepper or have some SHTF awareness. Maybe you’re participating in my National Preparedness Month Daily Challenge. If not, it is a series of small challenges – mostly thought exercises – to help people get better prepared by taking a step every day.

The challenge has been really popular, both on the website and over on the forum. Except for this one day when I took things to a darker place.

The question many people didn’t want to answer
On Day 15, I asked people how they could acquire food if they’d run through all their preps and still we had no grocery system in place. This challenge was loaded with excellent answers from people who really knew about the bounty they had outside their backdoor.

But then on Day 16, I asked people to take it one step further.

Today’s challenge is inspired by the course that I took in Croatia with Selco and Toby.

Yesterday, I asked you what food you could find nearby if the situation had devolved to the point that you’d gone through all your stored food.

Now, if the situation has devolved that far, you have to also imagine that there is no Rule of Law. It’s the Wild West. Everyone is a threat.

As Selco said to us, “You think this is hard? Now do it while everyone is trying to kill you.

When the SHTF in Bosnia, the threats were everywhere. Snipers were shooting civilians from the hilltops when they went to the river to get water. Neighbors were fighting neighbors for their resources. It was mayhem for an entire year…So today’s challenge takes yesterday’s a step further.

How would you get that nearby food if everyone around was a threat to your life or physical well-being? Would you go at night? Would you move stealthily and slowly during the day? Go in teams? This thought certainly puts a new twist on things. (source)

This question did get some good feedback, but it also got some pushback. A lot of folks didn’t even want to entertain the idea of an SHTF that was prolonged enough for things to become so terrible.

It could never happen here.
A lot of people replied to my email about this challenge that there was “no way something like Bosnia could happen here.”

After all, this is American. Home of the brave, land of the free. We have the Second Amendment and there’s a gun behind every blade of grass. My very question was ridiculous. And so on and so forth.

But if the situation is so prolonged that:

  • You’ve eaten all your stored food
  • There are no grocery stores
  • There is no supply chain
Do you really think that people won’t be trying to kill you in that scenario? Do you honestly think if we’ve gone so long that these things are facts that people won’t want what you have? Do you believe that sick people won’t be out there living their best lives, murdering, raping and pillaging?

If things have gotten so bad that you have eaten every bite of your carefully stored food, I cannot imagine that you’ll be out there gathering berries in your apron without a care in the world.

Why is it that we are willing to stockpile years’ worth of food and seeds, but we aren’t willing to free our imaginations enough to see what the rest of that scenario looks like? Some folks were willing to go there, pointing out the desperation of a parent with hungry children and how our resources are greatly outstripped by our population in many parts of the world.

However, others who had participated on a daily basis either skipped this challenge or doubted it could ever happen. I’m not pointing fingers at anyone but I’ve been thinking about this mindset every since the challenge and I think it’s important to discuss it.

But here are a few ways it could devolve here.
I’ve expanded a little on a post I wrote in the forum.

This is truly next-level stuff, and you all are right – there are a ton of variables. The Balkan War was basically a civil war because the countries involved all made up the former Yugoslavia. So it would be similar to different states in the US forming different countries. (Obviously, Selco can explain this stuff way better than I.)

There was one thing that surprised me more than anything else when I went to Bosnia. I expected to see war damage in the cities. But when we were driving around rurally, every structure I saw that would have been standing in the early 1990s had the marks of war on them. Not most. ALL. Barns. Homes up on mountains. Homes tucked away on side roads in the country. Businesses. Factories. I wrote about it and posted some of the photographs I took here. Most of the buildings there are made of stone. A lot were able to take a hit from shelling and remain standing. Many had holes in the stone made from high caliber weapons. (And if I’m not using the right terms for the weapons, please forgive my poor description.)

To give it a face here in the United States, imagine this.

  • Imagine if your state and two others all went to war with each other over politics and resources.
  • Imagine you are further divided by your political beliefs and some people in your state have the beliefs of one of the other states.
  • Now imagine you are divided even more by your religious beliefs and that each state has populations in each religion.
  • Then imagine that things are so bad that there are no utilities, no stores, no police, and no hospital.
Think about this in terms of the people who are actively fighting being the most far-right ultra-conservative white supremacists versus the most far-left ultra-liberal Antifa-types.

You belong to neither of these groups. You know that extremism of any type is wrong and dangerous. But these people don’t care. To them, anyone not like them is the enemy or is disposable. You’re either with them or you’re against them, in their minds. And that means if you want to survive and if you want your family to survive, you may be forced to fight, too.

So as these dissenting factions make their way through the countryside on whatever their missions are, maybe scavenging for food or supplies, would the rural areas truly still be safe?

Jose has written about people raiding farms in Venezuela. Selco has told us about how the things that will surprise us most during an SHTF event and one of those things was how “close” the enemy will be. In a recent article, he warned us that we can be certain the SHTF is beginning when people start to lose their guns. It happened that way in Venezuela, too, although it was two more years before the situation became obvious to everyone.

So yes, what I described above is an extreme scenario. I think it’s really important to consider extreme situations. If you were really at the point where you were having to go out and find food as we talked about on Day 15, there will really be people who are desperate.

And desperate people are exceptionally dangerous.

How dark are you willing to go?
If you aren’t willing to consider the depravity and desperation of others, how prepared are you really? If you believe it “could never happen where you live,” aren’t you overlooking a very important aspect of survival?

If you want to delve further into how dark a situation can become, and how quickly things can get there, you can read about it in Selco’s paperback book, The Dark Secrets of SHTF Survival, which is $5 off for Preparedness Month. Or you can take his course, One Year in Hell to go even deeper.

What kind of scenarios are you willing to imagine when you prepare for the future? Is there a limit on how far you’d be willing to go to save yourself and your family? Do you think things could get really extreme here in the United States or do you think that it could never happen here?
 
Good food fer thought but the OP did not go far enuf in the AD Article to truly turn the light bulbs on...He is depending on his extended course to do that. I do agree with him but everyone in every neighborhood , town, farmstead, retreat and city is going to be faced with challenges that cannot be predicted or even thought about until that very day arrives and all weunzs can do is have some preparations on hand to mitigate and give space.
 
For me, it clearly depends upon the situation. If someone is theatening my family, I will probably strike back with any and all means at my disposal. However, I doubt I will make the first strike. I hope to not lose my sanity or my faith no matter what happens. That is why I have a well stocked pantry and some LTS foods set aside, so that if "somebody does something" I will be better off than most and can hopefully stay in my home for a while to decrease my chances of running into problems. Sooner or later, I'm sure threats will arrive at my door. We are prepared for that, but until that happens, I will not be the aggressor. We will cocoon ourselves out of society for as long as possible as things get nasty. Thankfully I live somewhere where I think that nastiness will not occur initially, so there should be some time to get ready for whatever may come.

I think of Walking Dead and how guarded and skeptical everyone is when they meet someone new. I think I have that slight feeling now anytime I meet someone new, but not to the extent that it would be if SHTF. When someone is trying to assess their situation for danger and potential threats constantly, it brings that spidey sense to a whole new level. The social interactions will be completely different than what we have now. I think that will really throw the snowflakes for a loop and potentially challenge the loose grip on their reality. I think the suicide rate would skyrocket.
 
I read an interesting article the other day that said "The best way to get to get started as a prepper is to flip off your circuit breaker for a week and see what you needed and how you worked things out". Makes an interesting point.
 
don't agree Jim, the older I get the more I realise the world is going to sh1t.

But do you still feel the same drive to prepare as you get older? I know my parents, who are in their late 70's, have cut way back. My Dad says he will volunteer for the "first wave" as long he doesn't have to run or jump, just shoot.
 
But do you still feel the same drive to prepare as you get older? I know my parents, who are in their late 70's, have cut way back. My Dad says he will volunteer for the "first wave" as long he doesn't have to run or jump, just shoot.

It is a mindset.
It is hard to not continue making long range preps, knowing that the long range really isn't there ,as it was.
No more buying extra beans, rice, that's hard to gear down on, but gotta be realistic.
We are good to go for many years, just not adding stuff for long, long, term anymore.

Jim
 
I never had stuff for long,long term.
there is no way we can store enough stuff for say 30 years or more but we still expect to live that long if the worst happens.
its more about skills and knowledge than "stuff", stuff will wear out, get used up, consumed, some may even be stolen.
everything is finite, but I still intend to live when its all gone.
anyone who thinks survival is just about storing bullets and beans is in for one big shock.
 
I think there are several factors. I believe that no matter how much we have and how well we prepare, there are going to be situations and factors that we could not have foreseen. Ever have one of those days when several things go wrong, and no matter how much you had your stuff together, you get stuck? Car won't start, flat tire, traffic jam, road closed? We're all going to have to deal with stuff we would rather not deal with and do things we wouldn't have other wise.

I think that the more prepared you get, the less stressed you get about having enough and being prepared. Add age into that. I had a friend in her 70's tell me that she is not afraid to die. When you get older, you have lived your life, and realize that no one is going to get out of here alive. It is just a matter of when.
 
I Just think most people who call themselves preppers, are mostly collecting information about prepping. As I have said before on this forum, the whole prepping for survival took a wrong turn a few decades ago. It is now more of a very "SAD" joke, then a serious undertaking.
 
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Just thinking of having enough water when things go bad is really a huge thing, even having gravity feed water, like we have, may go away due to fires, extended drought, or earthquakes and as for food, in order for extended food supplies, you'd have to have food storage warehouses to really have enough, grocery stores will be gone and local farm sales will more than likely be a thing of the past as they will be setting aside supplies for themselves. I'm not wanting to die but I believe I can accept it and have, on a couple of occasions, thought I wasn't going to make it out of a vehicle accident, especially the time I rolled my 1959 pickup when I think I said out loud, "This is it Lord.". Later on when I was talking with a auto parts salesman that knew what had happened to me, he said, "You had an angel looking out for you.". I had to admit that to be true. In the end, I'll just try my best to protect family and friends and if I can do that and I die, at least I'll have done what I should have, truth is, none of us will really know, at this point, how it will end.
 
I Just think most people who call themselves preppers, are mostly collecting information about prepping. As I have said before on this forum, the whole prepping for survival took a wrong turn a few decades ago. It is now more of a very "SAD" joke, then a serious undertaking.

Too be fair I think prepping covers a wide range of preparedness. It's not always an off grid cabin in the mountains with 3 years worth of supplies and multiple renewable sources of food, water, etc. I consider anyone who is prepared enough to be self sufficient for 90+ days under most circumstances and has enough knowledge to develop sustainability after that, to be a prepper. Less than that is what I would call readiness. Like the 72 hour storm supply people. But even those people are better off than the unprepared.
 
most British preppers are of the 72hours to one month variety, this covers much of the minor inconvenience type of event.
people like me who are prepping for TEOTWAWKI type event are very low on the ground, I only know a few that l could count on the fingers of one hand.
 
Too be fair I think prepping covers a wide range of preparedness.

"FAIR" got zero to do with it. Survival has zero to do with "FAIR". Really "FAIR" is a bull'spit abstract agreed set of rules or regulations, which is "Nice" for fun and games, but Survival ain't fun and games.
 
"FAIR" got zero to do with it. Survival has zero to do with "FAIR". Really "FAIR" is a bull'spit abstract agreed set of rules or regulations, which is "Nice" for fun and games, but Survival ain't fun and games.

I think you have conveniently skipped the reality that a nice big percentage of survival is pure random unprepared luck. Critical incidents and catastrophic events have proven this over and over and over again. You can be sitting on more preps, have more skills, have rock solid defenses, and be in the greatest area on the planet; if that's where the asteroid hits it was all for nothing. If we reach TEOTWAWKI you can rest assured a large number of people who make it, will be do so by being at the right place at the right time, having done nothing to prepare and having no survival skills.
 
if someone survive the event but has done no preparations and has no skills(so presumably no knowledge either), just how long does anyone think they will survive? not long I would think.

Worked out for the Pilgrims. History is full of that very thing happening, because people either adapt or someone lends a hand or both.
 
if I read history correctly the Pilgrims nearly died off and would have if the Indians hadn't helped.
that's a heck of a lot left to chance, maybe the Indians wont be around next time.
people cant adapt if they don't know what their doing and you cant just assume someone will help.
 

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