Respect.
Where I was coming from was that I only run the genset for a couple hours per day. That's minimal fuel usage.
Back when the event (~10 years ago) I was talking about we lost power at about 3PM on Thursday afternoon and were able to set up the generator and get extension cords in place. Experience had taught me not to run the generator at night unattended, so I was shutting it down just after 9:30. The wife was using a CPAP machine but 2 100AH lead-acid batteries covered that just fine. To get extra gas we had to drive 5 miles, but I was supplying power to 2 neighbors (they had to take turns being plugged in) who ran and got 10 gallons of additional fuel (I only had 2 5-gallon cans at the start). By Sunday night about midnight power was restored, we didn't lose any food but we learned a lot.
Since then I have learned if the power goes out in the late evening, in near-freezing rain. I really don't want to be pulling the generator out of the shed and trying to pull start it in the dark. After doing it a couple of times I started thinking that I want something at the ready that I can turn on with the flip of a switch in my underwear if necessary.
Today, an oxygen machine (500 watts 24/7) takes the option of shutting down at night away from me. Now, I have 6 100AH LifePO4 batteries that can run it (and just the O2 machine) for 12 hours before being fully depleted. But that is 7,200 watt hours of energy storage, the first time I tried them out in earnest I learned that they just barely covered the time till my solar started making power in the morning. I also learned that if you are using a 15 amp smart charger it takes almost 2 days to fully charge them
, not good. So I invested in a much larger smart charger for that battery bank so it can be fully charge in a (solar) day. Thankfully in this first real test, my lead-acid battery bank that is directly connected to the solar garden was much larger and it was able to run the O2 machine for the second night of the event. During this event I was running the O2 machine, the CPAP (at night), charging phones, an AC during mid-day, running the smart charger in the daytime, and maintaining the Freezer(s)/Fridge: By the end of day 2 my battery banks were all drained and more clouds were rolling in, as I was preparing to fuel and start the generator the GRID was restored. But I learned that for long term silent running I would need to expand both my charging and my storage capacity; I also decided that I would need to develop a power management strategy to make the most of what I have.
All this rolls back to choosing what I will power in a SHTF event and how much Power (generation/energy storage) do I need at my disposal. Everyone is unique and their needs are what they are. But for me taking the time to step back and say, "that's not going to cut it" is an important step in the process.
Post Script/Edit: after reading
@zoomzoom and
@LadyLocust 's posts it is also clear that people who spend more time "off GRID" learn to prioritize and use more energy efficient devices (no upright freezers)... and those of us who are more grid tied can be very wasteful with our device choices.